In long-term relationships lust can fade and sometimes it happens that it completely disappears. To return it in your love life, you should find in your body the invisible button which will restart the storm of passion. To activate it, bring something new in your relationship. Sofia Capablanca, author of “101 Sexual Fantasy and Play” (issued by IPS Media), suggests some exciting new positions that will help you break the routine and enjoy more of their sexual encounters.
This is one of the most comfortable and most tender pose, because bodies are getting touched when the man surrounds you whit his hands. It’s a pose with penetration from behind where the man, as he lies and relies lateral side of the body, resting on the back of a woman who is in the same position as him. You only need to slightly raise your knee and thus you’ll be able to take time to prolong the sex. He can stimulates your breasts and clitoris, to kiss your neck and back lightly with passion.
This pose implies that both of you are lining on the side, facing each other, with “face to face” penetration. The rhythm should be slow, gentle, with a lot of tenderness and love. Excitement concentrates by watching each other and through the lips and eyes is transmitted connectivity at all levels.
Before you get into the act of making love, there are things that can increase your sexual pleasure. Certain food, smells or massage can lead to high orgasm. Do not forget the words, those „dirty“ can have a great effect.
Exercise to reach orgasm
I suggest you few moves which will increase the level of your satisfaction in sex. Exercise consists of next steps: few minutes during a day is more then enough to contract and relax the muscles of the pelvic bottom, alternately, for five seconds. After a while you’ll notice that your orgasms more intense, while men experience more intense and stronger erections.
Food with aphrodisiac properties
Make sure that in your menu, you can find food that increase sexual desire. There are asparagus with folic acid, which stimulates blood circulation which is particularly effective at problems with potency. Eat pineapple – containing organic acids and mineral salts. It’s very effective in combination with chili, honey and rum. Nutmeg is particularly effective for men population, while vanilla and ginger awakes desire for sex and sexual sensitivity.
It is scientifically proven that women’s orgasm lasts for 10 to 30 seconds. However, sometimes it is not easy to achieve it. To fully enjoy your love making, I will discover a few secrets after which you sexual climax will be longer, better and more intense.
Shivers down the spine, lost in space and time, we feel the frenzied rush of passion. Yes, the orgasm is a beautiful finish of every good sex. But no matter how perfect it is, some couple find it very hard to achieve.
There is a myth that only spontaneous sex is good sex, although usually is it quite contrary. Take your time. Plan and prepare yourself. Invested in a romantic evening and you will be rewarded with a powerful orgasm. If you want to have fun in the game of love, do not be prudish. Tell your partner clearly what do you want, and he will prepare the best possible foreplay for you.
A recent study has stunned the female world. Men reported everything they fantasize before sex, proving that they too crave for a longer foreplay.
It is widely known that women are in strong need of foreplay to full enjoy in sex act. However, it seems like gentlemen enjoy games before sex and want them to last longer. During the study, men also discovered what do they actually fantasize during foreplay and which parts of the act they enjoy practicing in their bedroom, or out of it. Here is what they have said:
A dinner without underwear
For a dining night put on a dress, heals and nothing else. Whisper to him that you do not have panties only when you leave the house and get to the restaurant. He will know he cannot have you at the moment, but will take advantage of the first opportunity to feel the magic of your naked body, as soon as you turn to the next corner. Who knows what else can happen on the way home.
Heels at home
From time to time, give your man a sexy scene at home. Stroll in high heels around the house and shake you ass a bit, and he won’t be able to resist. Nor would you.
Men have admitted kind words pleases their ears, but make them horny in the same time. Whisper some hot words to his ear, and then gently kiss him on the neck. That will be a great way to start a game of fire in the bed.
Touch him with your breasts
The feeling of closeness of your breasts on their skin, especially if you are in public place, a source is of many men’s fantasies. Give him this pleasure when he least expects and get close to him enough so he can feel you, but not kiss you. That will blow his mind.
Bring one hand down, letting it stroke the penis from the top all the way to the bottom. When it hits the bottom, release it. Meanwhile, bring your other hand to the top of the penis and repeat. Here are some of “anvil stroke” penis massage types:
Place both of your hands side by side against his shaft like a pair of bookends. Now push hard against his penis. Then lift your hands up and down. Continue in this manner for a while.
Turn the head of his penis like you’re trying to open a doorknob coated with grease. Now try turning the other way and repeat. This stroke is sometimes improved by using the other hand to stretch the skin of the penis toward the base.
Bring both well-lubricated hands down on his shaft. Some cocks are so big they require both hands; if your partner’s doesn’t, then use the other hand to caress and lightly flutter his balls, or tighten around the base of his shaft. If both hands fit along the length of the shaft then move them together, up and down, in the typical pumping motion. Pretend you’re holding a tennis racket and are about to score a Grand slam. You can also vary the directions of your hands: one up, one down at the same time. If it’s practiced, this penis massage might be the best one!
Since I could remember New Year’s was the time for festivities, but when I look back toward childhood I always remember how simple my needs were back then. Think about it and remember the time when your parents watched you fight that need for sleep, just so you could wait for Santa Clause and finally see that weird old man who left you presents. There was always a nap somewhere around 4pm, because in no other way could your body keep up with what was going on. Of course if you successfully completed battle with your own natural instincts you would get chance to take a sip of champagne and watch fireworks!
Those were the times when what made us happy and satisfied was rather simple, as we grow older so do our needs. And as our needs start to change, so does the way we want to be entertained or, even better, satisfied! Here is few ideas, scenarios; you could try out in order for those needs (cravings) to be completely satisfied.
This is the most complicated one.
You are female so wake up that sleeping romantic soul within yourself and pay a visit to the closest IKEA. Why this kind of store? Because it’s perfect for details and when it comes to romantic New Year’s Eve – GO FOR THE DETAILS!
- Buy a lot of candles, small ones in whichever colors you like and couple of glasses; make sure they are made from gray or stained glass.
- Lingerie! Lace, lace, and more lace! Embroidery and make it white. Or buy edible lingerie!
- Buy some red wine, oranges and dark chocolate, my personal recommendation is 70% cacao, or go with white wine, apples and honey!
- Buy some silk or linen scarves
- Buy napkins!
I think, some of you know what BJ is, and some of you don’t. BJ is shorter from blow job. This thing is usually disgusting to all of you, or you are just to shy to try, or you are scared of failing.
You should know that every guy dreams about getting great blow job every day, or before every sex by his girlfriend, wife, friend… If you think that we are not enjoying in this kind of game, you are so wrong.
The most important thing in giving a great blow job is to have THE ATTITUDE and of course, not to touch „your toy“ with teeth. I think you should remember those two things.
If we talk about attitude, you should know that you must show to your partner that you are enjoying giving him a great blow job, putting so much effort just because of him (if you are giving him proper BJ, he will probably give his best between your legs). You must love his cock, love licking it and sucking his balls. If you don’t like what I’m writing, then you will still have that barrier, and you won’t have great sex with your partner. If you don’t like to give a head, then this is a right moment to start loving it. LOVE COCK AND LOVE SUCKING IT!
Maybe I’m rude, but I really have to be, cause this site is made for naughty and rude things…
For the beginning you should know that you have to cooperate with you partner. If you want to make full pleasure to your partner, you should make that penis massage lasts longer then 5 mins.
That means that he needs to give you some sign just before ejaculation. If you repeat this „peaking“ process, your partner can „learn“ how to control his ejaculation and to make sex more pleasurable to you and to him as well. As I said delaying ejaculation during the course of the massage is desirable from the perspective of maximizing pleasure, many partners do like to finish the massage with one.
As an aside, it should be noted that a nice feature of male genital massage is that an erection is not required for it to feel good. Some massage strokes actually feel BETTER when the penis is soft.
There are many different penis massage strokes that feel good on male genitals. One approach that some people favor is selecting two favorite strokes, and for a period of time alternating between them every once in a while.
In general, there are 3 types of people when it comes to sexual activity:
1. The Freaks – these are the sex-crazed people who love to get down whenever, wherever! Nothing offends them. They are downright nasty and will eat you up in bed. You will know when you are with a freak!
2. The Normies – the majority or people fall into this category. These are usually people with a healthy sexual appetite and a willingness to explore. They get offended with over-the-top dirty talk, but get bored with a silent partner or „virgin“ sex.
3. The Meeks – usually due to an underexposure of sexual exploration in their teens/twenties, these people are extremely shy when it comes to anything intimate. They relate most things that feels good to being bad, and have a hard time expanding their mind and breaking out of their shell.
for beginning I want to say to you that foreplay is the one thing women can’t get enough of – OK, there are a few other things as well, but foreplay is an important one. As you know as a women, you are emotional creatures, and that’s why you like, enjoy and often need foreplay. You need to be pampered, coaxed and taken there, to burn the fire. I’ll write something about „Talk and tease“, especially DIRTY TALK as the leader of this group.
How to Talk Dirty to a Guy
My first advice – if you are shy, is to start out slow.
If you giggle and blush when you ask your partner to bite your nibble on your breasts or ears then it’s okay. You are the only two persons in the room, so it shouldn’t matter what anyone else thinks (cause nobody can see you).
Whisper in his ear what you want until you feel like telling him out loud. Make your needs known (if you don’t, your partner cannot give you full satisfaction)!
If you only feel like talking dirty once or twice that’s fine.You’ll find that telling your partner what you like can really spice up things between the sheets. After all, he won’t know that you enjoy being called “his little sex bunny (or machine, kitten)” unless you tell him. You can also take his hands and show him where and how you would like to be touched.